I can’t believe it’s already been a year since we tied the knot. On July 22nd, we completed our first full circle around the sun and what an incredible journey it’s been. Before marriage we were told that the first two years of marriage are hard, I was (at times) nervous about this, but other times I was confident that it’s going to be more than fine. When there is so much love, respect, friendship, and shared values between the partners then there is nothing to worry about. Am I right or am I right? 😉 We knew we would really appreciate and love this journey together.
So prior to the big day I had asked our guests to give one piece of advice on marriage. This question was directed to everyone and especially to those who have been on a long-term relationship, whether married or not. Believe it or not, I still enjoy asking couples for their piece of advice on this sacred beautiful thing called marriage. In fact, after our wedding day, we drove down to Prince Edward County and stayed at this super lovely and beautiful hotel, The Manse Boutique Inn & Spa. We made reservations for our first dinner as husband and wife, and an elderly couple were sitting at a table nearby who happened to celebrate their 48 years of marriage whilst we celebrated our 48 hours of marriage. My heart melted!
Here I share our top 6 advice we received:
- Be kind to one another even if you don’t want to. This is one of my favourite advice from the couple we met at The Manse Boutique in Prince Edward County.
- Keep the flame alive. I think this is an important one, especially down the years. Thanks mom-in-law. 😉
- Don’t go to sleep upset. This is a repeated advice that we received.
- Talk about everything, whatever is weighing your heart down, s/he should know.
- Always remember why you fell in love in your early dating days.
- Communication, Consideration, and Commitment (CCC). Two of these are straightforward; consideration: is to consider your partner in any decision making. Remember you’re joint as one and should always consider your partner in any step you take, consult with her/him, ask for advice..etc.
- Life can get really busy (with kids, work..etc) so don’t stop dating.
- Always express your love and appreciation to one another.
- Pick your battles.
- Enjoy a hobby together.
- Bonus: Keep the fridge stocked with beer (haha)!
If you have any relationship/marriage advice please do share. I would love to hear from you!
- Also, here are some photos we took on our one year anniversary. Despite the extra love lbs everything still fits (thankfully) hehe.
XO Dalia
Peter
August 10, 2018Bring on the love pounds and the years! Love you always my life my wife 🙂